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Dumb thoughts

November 6th, 2008 (09:45 am)
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Why do i take it so personally when i get unfriended ? It's really dumb of me.

A while ago for what ever reason i had someone do that to me, then they wrote me this message and said they were sorry and friended me back. We chatted a little bit then without a word they did it to me again. No response to my "hey, what did i do? message either.

It just really yucky when you think that you have a sort of friend and you really dont.

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Posted by: john_in_scruz (john_in_scruz)
Posted at: November 6th, 2008 04:09 pm (UTC)

*HUG*

Posted by: blueirisheyez (blueirisheyez)
Posted at: November 6th, 2008 04:20 pm (UTC)

Ya know, it didn't happen on here but I had a similar thing happen. I had a friend, someone I considered one of my best, tell me that she had made some bad decisions in her life, more or less put the blame on her "friends" for giving her bad advice and she ended our friendship. A few months later I got an IM with how sorry she was, she was out of her head blah blah blah...things were back to normal and than one day I was blocked from everything. She has yet to tell me why. I have learned, as hard and painful as it may be, that this is THEIR issue and not mine. I have enough self-doubt, I don't need more added to that! Just be positive and not let it drag you too far down.

Posted by: @theprincesswife (bdprincess)
Posted at: November 6th, 2008 04:22 pm (UTC)
colored socks

Awe, hey stranger *hugs*

Thank you, it's so dumb i know. LOL

Posted by: blueirisheyez (blueirisheyez)
Posted at: November 6th, 2008 04:26 pm (UTC)

LOL hey you! I miss you! We need to get together!

It isn't dumb. It is just our nature. We want to please and when someone is upset with us, and we can't fix it, our instinct is to blame ourselves.

Posted by: @theprincesswife (bdprincess)
Posted at: November 6th, 2008 04:28 pm (UTC)
colored socks

I have a new email. I'm checking for yours now....... got it. Check for an email from my Gmail later k. Diner or coffee or drinky poo's ?

LOL

Posted by: Ms. Bella (belladona)
Posted at: November 6th, 2008 04:26 pm (UTC)
victory sex

*hugs*

Posted by: LovingSlave (lovingslave)
Posted at: November 6th, 2008 07:53 pm (UTC)

BTW- I DO notice when you're not around. Hope all is well with you and your Daddy. And I agree - it's an icky feeling but it's not really about you as someone else said on your replies. I hope that you truly know that!

*hugs and kisses*

Posted by: hislilstar-tia (hislilstar)
Posted at: November 7th, 2008 04:29 am (UTC)

Ohhhh doll we have ALL been there, I try not to take it so personally especially when its someone I really like and I feel like we have lots in common and then poof, its like being a kid all over again and not being invited into the game yah know?? I have come to try to tell myself that I misread the friendship and thats all. It still hurts.

hugs
tia

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